Hurting Others with Energy: Part 5 of 5
I believe the time is upon us for each of us to voluntarily commit to becoming harmless. That means “I will not allow myself to act from a closed heart; I will not demean, abuse, or injure another."
As the frequency of energy in the earth — and correspondingly in our bodies and personalities — increases, we are becoming ultrasensitive and consciously empathic. We are becoming aware that we can hurt each other in many ways that are much more subtle than rape, pillage, murder — and mental, emotional, and sexual abuse.
For example, greed causes pain to others; when you believe you must hoard (anything), you cannot give love, so intent are you on the safety of having, and this hurts others. When you selfishly take opportunities away from others, like the chance to give, you never get to experience how they might help you of their own free will, and deprive them of the opportunity to feel their own generosity.
Scarcity causes pain to others. When you believe you never have enough, that your worth is based on riches, you can miss the experience of your spiritual roots, of the soul’s inherent abundance and ease of creating any reality you desire — and this adds to the false idea that the physical world is a place of suffering, and prolongs our collective misery. Plus, you forget the power of generosity and gratitude to heal yourself and others.
Envy causes pain to others; when you think someone is better than you are, or when you try to mimic them, you stall the expression of your own unique talents and destiny, which others may need. Similarly, when you project too much admiration or resentment onto a talented, expressive person, they may telepathically sense there’s something wrong with sharing themselves. “Did I rob the other of positive self-regard because I expressed myself happily?” How many people keep themselves small because they might eclipse the reality of a parent, partner, or friend? When your joy diminishes, and your genius contracts, we all suffer the loss — including you.
When you allow yourself to vent repeating waves of anger, or sadness, for example, you hurt others by choosing to indulge in what isn’t — which is self-contraction, or even an unconscious attempt to make others contract along with you.
We allow ourselves to wound others: Why?
I know people who refuse to apologize for bad behavior in spite of knowing they’ve wounded the people they love most. They won’t admit they might want to change or might need help in doing so, because their ego feels it must maintain control and a superior position to avoid feeling deeply unloved.
Unfortunately, because of this ignorance, they remain isolated and encapsulated in a shell of invulnerability, unable to truly open to the gracious, lucky, and love-filled reality their heart would like to gift them with.
How many of us have had relationships in which the partner was abusive in seemingly innocuous ways, or in serious ways, yet was so masterful at apologizing that we allowed them endless second chances? We hurt them and ourself by not drawing a line and putting a stop to it.
Becoming At-One and Harmless
As we enter the Intuition Age, we have a direct experience of how the high-frequency Self and Spirit operate, and we come to see that the current mental and emotional behaviors we accept as normal are prehistoric. We feel ashamed. We want to make amends because it’s too painful to avoid “atonement” — the re-creation of the state of at-one-ment.
The time is upon us when each of us needs to voluntarily commit to becoming harmless. That means “I will not allow myself to act from a closed heart; I will not demean, abuse, or injure another person, animal, or plant.” No more excuses. No more postponement. The time is now to choose a spiritually-based, compassionate way of being in the world.
Here are some words and experiences that can help you choose to change, and give up even your most subtle of acts of “violence”:
remorse: deep regret or guilt for a wrong committed; contriteness; pangs of conscience; self-condemnation; self-reproach; ruefulness
day of reckoning; day of judgment; feel the implication of actions; come to grips with; face the consequences; contrition; repentance; penitence; compunction
reconciliation; reconcile: cause to coexist in harmony; make or show to be compatible; acknowledgment
We stop the cycle of pain by not participating in it. It’s time to really get it that when we hurt another, we hurt ourselves, in so many ways. If you pay attention these days you can feel the hurt — instantly — when you hurt another. And when another passive-aggressively hurts you. This doesn’t mean you don’t stand up for yourself or say what you need or what doesn’t work for you. It doesn’t mean you don’t protect your loved ones from danger, or speak truth to power. Doing no harm does not equate with being wimpy.
When you remain isolated and encapsulated in a world of your own creation, not trusting the Flow, not enjoying what others spontaneously bring out in you, not indulging in the joy of surprise, you freeze a spot in the unified field. This distorts the Flow and hurts others who need the Flow to supply them with inspiration and support, and take their expressions and contributions to others who can use these effluvia.
I invite you to examine the subtle ways you withhold love, or withhold yourself, or refuse to receive, or judge what comes to you, or demean the life of others or of yourself. These are all ways we hurt others with energy. For me, a happy dog or any animal living purely in the present moment, serves as a master teacher!
❤️excellent and insightful ❤️ So love seeing photos of you and Molly. ✨